Excellent session

I had a really great session last night with a sub who I had seen once before, just 2 days earlier. (see 2 guest book entries for his take on it all)

The second session was so much better than the first (and that was pretty good lol) in part due to having a longer time period to utilise, as well as being comfortable with each other after the first visit. And of course I had a much better idea of how far I could take him, push him .... and push him I did lol

I started the session more or less straight away .... no preamble ... told him to strip, pushed him up against a peice of equipment .. and started !!! I pulled at his nipples very much harder then before (he had teased in an email after the first session that I was too gentle so I made sure I was not this time lol) ..... and in a subsequent text he had said for me to "bring it on" ...

This time I did not blindfold him ..... I allowed him to look at me more or less the whole time ... and I just stared right into his face, his eyes, and spat at him, and slapped his face and spoke quietly but abusively to him ... calling him a filthy slut and the like. Of courseI had to give his balls a good going over too .... and he screamed quite a few times. I grabbed, and squeezed and pulled ..both downwards ..forwards and sometimes backwards ....but made sure it was not gentle and neither were the kicks and punches that went in the direction of his balls. He was winded several times ....

In the middle of all this, he was quite shaken and needed a minute so I took that opportunity to go and get my strap on and I came back wearing it ... a black rubber one .... I then had him on his knees, licking it and then I fucked his mouth with it, holding hsi head while he made some choking sounds :)

I also had him service me orally ... on his knees, with me standing legs apart and also on the queening stool again .... and during one queening bout, I pissed into his mouth ... just a bit ... he gulped but it had takedn him a little by suprise, even though I had warned him to be ready incase I needed to piss. Some of it went onto the leather cushions his head was resting on, and onto the wooden base of the queening stool so of course after I had come .. and pissed ... I made him clean it all up ... with his tongue

Then he needed to rest a minute .... so I allowed him a few minutes to worship my boots ... and there he lay, face down kissing and hugging my boots for some minutes and then rested his head on my boot, quite exhausted I suspect.

At some point I had him on his knees, and attempted to fuck his arse with my strap on ... but despite lots of lube it just wasnt happening. He was quite tight ... so then I had an idea ... I laid on my back ... and had him squat over me and insert it into his arse himself ... while he faced me. I watched him lower himself onto it as I stared right into his eyes ... and slowly but surely it went in .... and then I instructed him to fuck himself ... and he began to ride up and down on it ..... slowly .. face squirming, eyes screwed up and heavy breathing as he did. It was obviously not that comfortable (precisely my aim of course lol) ... and then just as he seemed to be getting more used to it, I began to thrust my hips upto meet his arse and I fucked his arse hard and fast for a good few minutes ... and I could see it was hurting him .... and as I did so I stared up at him and spat into his face and called him slut again etc ....

Later on in the session, after a boot worship episode I had him get up and kneel on a spanking bench leaning forwards ... and this made his height more suitable for arse fucking ..and after some writhing and positioning along with more lube, my black strap on was in ... and I held onto his hips and fucked him again quite savagely ... so much so it was physically tiring for me too.

By this time, I could see he was just about at the end of his tether and probabaly really couldnt take alot more so there was a bit more face slapping and spitting into his face ... and then a few more punches and pulling of his balls .... and then finally I warned him it was time for the big one ... I turned him to face away from me, leaning forward onto a suspension rack ... and I grabbed his balls from behind, squeezed really very hard while pulling them back between his legs at the same time. His height increased intially by several inches followed by a sudden shrink in height as he doubled over and then he safeworded .... and it was all over.

Afterwards he was visibly shaken (shellshocked he called it) .... so we had a hug and then he had a glass of water and we sat together for a few minutes while he recovered. We talked a little while and then he dressed and left, still saying that it would be his last time ... and me laughing and saying it wouldnt :)

I have heard from him today and apparently every movement is painful and reminds him of me ... his nipples are sore, his balls ache and his insides are hammered lol

In summary it was a very intense session and I feel I took him as far as he could safely have gone at that point (psychologically speaking) ... but am pretty sure if he did continue to indulge, he would be able to go further

Anyway it was a great session and I had alot of fun ... and by all accounts so did he ... even if alot of the fun is the remembering afterwards :)

Great balls of pain

Well I had the most enjoyable session with a new slave a couple of days ago, and he enjoyed it so much also that we have another one planned for later today. In fact I had intended to take a few pictures but I was so enjoying myself that I completely forgot until afterwards lol ... maybe I will try again later today

We had spoken on the telephone a few times as well as exchanging emails and texts so I had a fair idea of what he liked, but as always I wont work to a script as that holds no pleasure for me, so I called the shots, more or less within the boundaries of his likes and limits

He was quite nervous, understandably, but that just adds to the buzz for me :) His "thing" was to be dommed by close physical contact rather than the use of implements .... so I never touched a crop or a flogger or a gag. Instead I slapped his face, spat on him, squeezed and pulled on his nipples and also his balls to the point he would scream out (even though he said he didnt make noise lol) .... and then I started to go to work on his balls. I pushed him back against a suspension rack and kneed him in the balls. He let out a groan and a whoosh of breath at the same time as he bent forward .... and it made me smile. I liked it. And then I did it again. And again. And then I kicked him in the balls. Then I had him lie on the floor, legs apart and pressed my boot heel into his balls and squashed them .... as well as pressing my heel into other parts of his chest and torso and cock. I allowed him to kiss the toes of my boots as I stood over him and suck my heel for which he was grateful.

In between all of this, I also had him lick my pussy .... in various positions ... I sat on a chair, I stood up legs apart, I squatted over him .... and finally I sat on a queening stool, with him under me and made him lick me for several minutes until I got off :)

Oh yes and we had a few minutes of leg and boot worship too. I enjoyed seeing him grovelling at my feet, kissing my boots. I luuuurve that

After the queening stool, I sat on the floor infront of him and punched his balls with my fist ... and I kept on doing it .... and he was gasping and moaning. I carried on. As he was blindfolded he never quite knew when it was coming and all the time this was interspersed with my spitting on him and slapping his face hard.

Finally I had him on all fours, arse in the air, legs apart and I punched his balls from behind ... and this was when he finally safeworded ... and it all stopped. I then pulled him towards me and we had a cuddle for quite a few minutes ... and we were just quiet

It had been quite an intense session for us both .... and the obvious chemistry certainly helped with that. However it was all over far far too quickly ... I didnt even realise the time when we stopped. As a result he never got to experience my bladder full of piss that I had saved up for him though there is always today .... and today we have longer to spend together so it should be great. Cant wait ...

Sadly for personal reasons, this may be this particular subs last indulgence in the not so vanilla world .... so as he said, I need to give him a good send off. That said, I have my doubts he will be able to maintain that stance. He will be back. Im sure of it. Maybe not straight away but he will be back.

Getting ready

Waiting for a sub to arrive

Well I just logged on to my blog here to see if this photo had appeared as I finally managed to get it to upload from my mobile phone. There were some technical issues but here is the test pic for what its worth, so it obviously now works. Now I know this, I can start uploading some "proper" pictures of the action as this was just a little test. Watch this space :)

Hmmm glad I got my new phone with its 8MP camera after all

A catch up

Well firstly apologies to those of you that read my blog as life has been so hectic, both vanilla and kink wise that I have had precious little time or energy to keep it up to date .... so while I have a few minutes, this entry is by way of a little catch up


It is my plan to purchase a portable queening stool by the end of this week all being well ..... though not sure just how long it would take to actually be made and delivered .... but am quite excited by the prospect of this

The one I want is like the one above in the photograph but am not yet decided on black or red .... probably black as then it will not clash with whatever I choose to wear whereas red might

Anyway that is something I am very much looking forward to .... and then I just have to decide who will get the pleasure of being my first victim to use it with ... any volunteers ???? lol. I quite fancy having a slave at my home to just lick and worship my pussy as I recline on the stool, watching TV and barely noticing him ... other than noticing what he is doing for me of course ... mmmm ..... and then when I am done, I will just dismiss him and he can go home .... perhaps not even any words spoken other than instructions if he doesnt do it right ... as I like to be licked .... am definately loving this idea :)

I am having a session this evening with a new slave and am very much looking forward to this one. He has quite a bit of experience and seems I can do quite alot with / to him so that will be fun. He likes close physical intimate contact so some face slapping and kicking may be in order more than the crop for example .... oh and yes of course, pissing on him is a bit of a must lol. Oooh yes this one is going to be fun and I am feeling in a particularly evil mood (in a kinky way) today. mmmm

Ok well I guess I should go and do some boring vanilla stuff as I have plenty to be catching up on .... but first things first, I need to eat something and have a warm relaxing bubble bath ... not necessarily in that order lol

Watch this space .... I might even write about tonights session at some point this week

A good day

I have had a good day today .... productive and fun though mostly vanilla :) That said, I have had a text from one of my subs to tell me he is thinking of me while he is on his holidays, and that when we meet next he has a present for me .. an apparently evil, extra heavy hand made 3 tailed tawse .... which of course I am looking forward to handling and breaking in .... and needless to say, he will have the honour of that particular role :)

I have also been having contact with a new slave .... and hopefully we will session next week. He wants to be verbally humiliated, and physically abused including spitting and face slapping ... and generally being used and abused by me. Unfortunately he cant be marked, but there are ways and means of exerting control over a man .... and I look forward to doing just that with him next week. Oh and he is another who wants to be peed on ... so yet another session for next week I am looking forward to very much

A good start to the week and its only Monday :)

Phew that was hard work

Well I have now transferred most of the content of my old Blog over to Blogspot and since the import feature didnt seem to work on a wordpress file, I had to do it manually, post by post, picture by picture ... tiresome ! This is where I sometimes think I need a 24/7 maid/slave/IT expert to come and sort these things (and more) out for me lol

Anyway its done now .... and the reason is that now I can access my blog from my phone while I am out and about which also means I can upload pictures and videos of the action as and when it occurs if I want to ... for all the world to see :)

Of course, I have yet to try any of this from my mobile phone, but thats the theory .... so we will see

Been Spending Today

Well what a day .... I do enjoy spending :)

Today I ordered some weights for use in CBT , a new 5 ring gates of hell and also a leather parachute from Fettered Pleasures as my old ones were somewhat old and worn now. I also took delivery of a new blindfold ... its one that cuts out ALL light and you can even keep your eyes open while wearing it and it wont smudge eye makeuop either. How neat is that :)

I also ordered a brand new mobile phone with a 8MP phone built in .... which is excellent quality .. and so will save me carting the old DSLR around quite so much. It also works well on low light so will be good in dim dungeons etc for scene shots :) I do love gadgetry

I quite fancy buying an E Stim unit for electrical play .... I used to have a really old violet wand .. with the old glass attachments .... it was beautiful but I sold it. Cant quite believe that I did that but I did, so there you go.

Session - Am in Love

I had a session a few days ago with a new slave I had never met before, and only spoken to briefly on the telephone. He didnt stand out to me particularly at all when we spoke .... sounded like many other subs/slaves .... but I was looking forward to the session none the less but then again I am a perv and I always do lol

Anyway he arrived at the due time and was let in. He was nothing special to look at .... but there was something about him that appealed to me ...a quality I couldnt quite put my finger on .... but I found that I was attracted to him more than I would usually be for some reason. A few times he smiled at me through the session, in a very submissive way and I warmed to him even more.

He hadnt had a session with anyone in a long while so I think he enjoyed it .... I certainly did .... and I found myself being much more tactile with him than I would usually be. And when I said I wanted him to come back and see me, I really meant it. For some reason, for me, there was some kind of chemistry there .... usually I have a guard up so that my slaves "dont get to me" too much .... but this guy, well I just really liked him. I felt we connected.

Unfortunately for me he was married .... and felt guilty about what he was doing .... so tries to resist his urges ... so even if he does contact me again, it may well not be for a good while .... and thats all a great shame as if he wasnt married and thus liberated in his head enough to visit me again, I could see this developing into something .... not something I was particularly looking for .... but open to if it happened my way ... and I feel like the potential was there for that to be the case. I have thought about him alot and I really enjoyed dominating him .... sitting on his face, administering corporal punishment and him thanking me and seeing the lovely marks it left (he didnt mind being marked it turned out).... pinching him, tweaking his nipples, and particularly enjoyed watching him squirm as he licked up his own cum (that was a new one for him) and he soooooo didnt want to do it ... but I told him to and he did ... and he hated it .. I could see that lol .... but I was well impressed that he did that for me because I ordered it ...even though he didnt want to. Yes I really feel there would be potential for that to develop beyond Pro Domme / sub relationship

Ho hum .... probably wont ever see him again .... never mind .... it was nice while it lasted .... all one hour of it lol

Just goes to show though, that these feelings can creep up on you when you least expect them :)

Consoling Myself

Well I am a bit fed up today. I had wanted to go to the BBB today, but a slave wanted a session and couldnt make it any other time so I agreed to that. However he cancelled late morning and by then it was too late for me to get things organised so that I could go. All that kink and pervery and I am missing it as I type :(

I had wanted to look for some new electro toys and also a new corset while I was there too and there was a demo on erotic implant play which I wouldnt have minded attending .... after all, we never stop learning ... and watching others is a delight in and of itself anyway

So here I am , home alone .... have just been chatting online to a sub who I have seen before but not for a long while ... and we have chatted a few times. He was saying he wanted a session today so that made me feel a bit better .... but turned out he just wanted to talk about it alot ... online .. and not commit .... so all in all he was a timewaster with every excuse in the book to not send a deposit, or not make a booking .... wanted a long preamble from me so that I would "talk him into it" .... "lure him in" .... yeah right .... timewaster alarms went off !!!! lol

Anyway to console myself I have been internet window shopping ..... and saw this leather corset from the USA ... and am quite taken with it but am not sure whether to go for it or not. Any feedback welcomed lol

Todays New Slave

I had the pleasure today of breaking in a new slave today. A tallish, well built middle aged man. He is still fairly novice and so was unsure what his limits are/were so I went very gently with him.

When he arrived, he came into the dungeon, said "Hello Mistress" , handed me my tribute and then stripped naked before kneeling infront of me, head bowed as I sat just as previously instructed. I do so like to start a session like that .... to see a man on his knees before me ..... quite where he should be ;)

We talked a few minutes and then I made him stand and flicked his semi erect cock a few times .... less semi after this lol. I then found a set of nipple clamps that he told me he liked but once on, it was too much for him and they were removed lol. I did like the fact he grew about 2" in height while they were on though lol .... I did try a different set later and he was able to tolerate those better

I put a soft leather collar on him and then leather ankle and wrist cuffs. Took a few minutes to find a set that fit his well built wrists and ankles but we did. I then secured him face forward, arms high to the A frame. MMM that was a nice sight. He has a lovely bottom .... firm and toned. Very pinchable, smackable and whippable lol

I started to use a pin wheel on him, up and down the length of his body and he seemed to particularly enjoy that ... writhing and leaning backwards into me as I did it. I also did it at the front and ran it over his nipples before running it over his cock and around his balls and up his arse crack too.

I then put a ring gag on him with attached nipple clamps .... and these he did tolerate though winced when I squeezed on them a little from time to time :) He was drooling saliva before very long lol ....

After a while I began to flog him with a "baby" flogger and we slowly moved through three different size/types of floggers, a wooden paddle and a couple of canes as well as some light spanking ... though all the time I was careful to keep the tempo low as he didnt want marking. I was enjoying myself.

I then untied him from the A frame and had him lean over a spanking bench, secured his wrists together and continued the same kind of activities .... his bottom nicely warmed and rosy now mmmm

Soon I decided it was my turn and so I led him by a dog lead attached to the collar into the next room, where I sat in a chair and he was made to service me with his tongue through the ring gag. As I thought this was not enough sensation for me so I removed the ring gag and then had him lie on his back on the floor. I sat astride of him and rubbed his cock up and down my pussy (knickers on) and he nearly came so I had to stop lol .... then I face sat him and rode his face while he serviced me again with his tongue. Much better now. MMMMMMM

I then removed my knickers and shoved them into his open mouth and began to ride his face again, mouth wide open, knickers peeping out lol. After a couple of minutes I stopped and removed the knickers from his mouth and sat on his face again. It was my intention to piss on him now .... as previously negotiated ... but at the last minute he safeworded and said he realised he wasnt ready for that .... nice fantasy ... panicked when it was going to be a reality. I laughed. He wasnt the first and wont be the last.

After this, I instructed him to wank while I watched ... and he did. He was told not to come .... and to stop wanking each time he got close which he did several times. And each time I instructed him when it was time to start again .... during which I ran the pinwheel over his body, balls and cock ... and tweaked those nipple clamps again. Finally I let him come with instruction to aim for over himself and not me which he dutifully complied with lol.

I really enjoyed this session ... because he was fairly inexperienced ... and I hope and believe that he did too. He did realise however, that his penchant was more "at the lighter end of things" ..... and realised maybe drinking Mistress Champagne is a fantasy ... or maybe he will be ready in time. We will see :)

Finally

Well I have finally gotten around to adding a few words to my blog again. What with the heat, amd life being very hectic in general, I just havent either had the time or felt like it.

I have however been having a good time. I now have two sub TVs who will both let me do whatever I want with them, which includes joining in for a session for forced bi scenes which I love to do. Between them, they are just about available all of the time so I am looking forward to making use of them in the future. I also now have the use of an additonal dungeon (see previous blog entry), and that one included lots of sissy/maid/fem dressing up stuff for my subbies to wear if I want them too so thats also gonna be fun. Nothing quite like a sissy maid to do my bidding

Saturday was a busy day as I had a couple of scenes that day ... I dont usually do more than one in a day but neither of them were free at other times so it was just the way it worked out. Anyway I had a fun time in the morning, and then again early evening so at least I had some recovery time ... especially needed in this heat lol. Of course I had to drink plenty as it was so hot .... and we all know what happens then ... what goes in must come out lol ... and out it did .... god was it fun ... I do like to piss in a slaves face mmmm

And it looks like I am in for a fun week .... I have a two brand new slaves to see this week .... one on Tuesday and one on Thursday ..... am looking forward to those sessions as I love to break in new slaves :) Am still planning what I will do with them lol

So anyway keep an eye on this Blog over the next few days as I might well write about these scenes lol ....

PS ... Might be going to the BBB this month .... see you there if any of you are going too :)

New Dungeon

Well I went to visit a local dungeon today and met with the owner, also a lifestyle and Pro Dom and her sub partner. They showed me round their premises which I was quite impressed with as it is very well kitted out with 2 well stocked playrooms, a kitchen area, loo and shower .... and had a small discreet entrance so that no one would even know it was there.

It was a great place and though well stocked, I would be certain to take the more intimate type of toys with me from my own toy box. i feel more comfortable with that, and my subs and slaves would too I would think,


After that we went for lunch at a Thai restaurant and 3 courses later, and alot of chat, we went our seperate ways, with me very firmly of the opinion that I will be using this venue from time to time as it can cater for certain things more easily than in my current 2 venues such as watersports or crossdressing and even forced bi as there is a TV maid on hand for as and when required .... something I havent been able to accomodate up til now .. plus I have another tv helper that I can take with me sometimes too ... so its all looking very good so far ... quite exciting really

I just HAVE to have it

I was browsing yet again, searching for a queening stool that fot various criteria that I have .... when I happend upon this cage that also doubles up as a queening stool and a spanking bench ... How amazing is that

Anyways its not cheap but I am certainly hoping to work towards getting one of these in the not too distant future :) Im so excited by the thought of it ... its one sexy peice of kit .. so I thought I would share it with you.

Hmmm its also space saving as it has multi purposes .... yes I can see it now, spank and flog a subbie attached to it face down on the top initially .... then cage him a while ... but every so often I will queen him as when I want while he remians caged ... just there to serve me in that way .... ooooh delectable ... cant wait .... OMG I want it NOW ;)

Dungeon

I am seriously thinking about hiring a dungeon on occasions so I can cater for more variety of tastes ..as well as satisfying my own desires to try things that currently I dont have the equipment or space for

I have my dungeon room ... and I have a domestic setting too ... but for example, Im not equipped to do suspension and yet would dearly love to get into that .... and some of the larger furniture items I cannot accomodate as I dont have room for more .... my dungeon room is very very well equipped but it is small

Anyway to that end I have contacted 2 local ones and am waiting for them to get back to me.

Of course then I could hold the slave parties I have always wanted to :) .... that would be such fun ... in fact I have tons of ideas and the more I think about it, the more I think what a good idea it is. I have suggested that I could go and look round on Monday next week as Im free so fingers crossed everyone :)

Champagne Drinking My Way

I had a client come to see me this week. I have seen him before and we had had good sessions involving corporal punishment and CBT with some verbal humiliation thrown in for good measure too and of course the old golden showers fun :) We both have always had a good time with this .... having subs drink my champagne happens to be one of my favourite things ... no surprise really when you look at my name lol

So we had a while sessioning in our usual way .... but then I told him to follow me downstairs and I led him (wrists cuffed and blindfolded) into my kitchen I made him kneel on the cold tiles .... and I verablly abused him a little ... before moving forwards towards him, grabbing the hair at the back of his head and thrusting his head towards my pussy telling him to "start worshiping Mistresses pussy right now" as I lifted my skirt with my other hand... and he began to lick my pussy, trying to get his face right in there as I parted my legs more to allow him to. Boy this was good. As he licked and sucked and tasted my juices, I writhed back and forth over his tongue and his nose rubbed my clit mmmmm

After a while, I was extremely turned on .... and I began to climax ... and as I did I commanded him to "drink me" and I let go and pissed all over his face and mouth .... and he lapped and slurped as much and as fast as he could ... as I had a most tremendous orgasm :) Afterwards I removed his blindfold and he looked up at me and I instructed him to clean up the mess and he did ... licking up every last drop of my piss from the floor as I sat on a stool and watched.

When he had finished, I summoned him towards me and told him I needed cleaning now ... and I sat back on the stool, legs apart and he cleaned me thoroughly with his tongue reaching as far in the cracks and crevices as he could. Once he was done with this I told him it was time to thank me .... and he promptly did begin to thank me profusely, bowing at my feet, mumbling and kissing my feet (he knows I like that too) ....

After I had had enough, I told him it was time to get washed up and dressed which he promptly did ... and then we chatted for a little while and he told me how much he had enjoyedour time together once again... and hoped we could do it again ... and then proceeded to tell me other fantasies that he has that I didnt know about so now I am very much looking forward to his next visit which sadly looks like it wpont be for a couple of weeks or so due to his work committments

What a Lovely Day

Well its a fabulous day .... if not a little too hot for me ... the sort of day you just want to laze around drinking cool drinks . Alas for me thats not how today is going to go .... for I have lots to do and not much time to do it in .

Tonight however, I have a treat in store .... as one of my subbies is coming to see me ... and I am looking forward to that. I always enjoy our sessions ;) A chance to wear some of my new gear too me thinks

I often piss on this guys face .... and make him lap it up as he services me with his tongue .... maybe we will do that again tonight. Hmmm will see what mood Im in .... watch my sessions section of this Blog for the low down ... though I probably wont get time to write it up til tomorrow night or even Thursday

Ok .... I have to go ... just a short enrty for today

Latex Vac Bed

I want this .... oooh I soo want this vac bed .... they just look fabulous. I have never had the pleasure of using one but have seen them in a couple of vids ... mmmmm ....

Dungeon Furniture - Latex Vac Bed | eXtreme Restraints.

New Clothing

I am pleased to announce that the clothing I had delivered a few days ago and hadnt got round to trying on ALL fits .... a resounding success :) So I now have 2 new PVC skirts, one red and one purple, 2 new tops both black but only 1 is PVC and another pair of long gloves to add to my collection..they are PVC corset gloves .... oh and a pair of boots too - leather :) So all in all, a good shopping session that turned out to be

Mind you I have seen more stuff that I want now .... there are 2 latex dresses to die for .... and I want a latex vac bed but that wont be happening any time soon I dont think sadly lol

The New Crop Gets Broken In

I was feeling bored and lonely ... needed some company ... so I had a subbie come visit. I will call him Ian (not his real name) . I have known Ian a couple of years and he is a friend who happens to be sub so we do play from time to time. He is younger than me with a very fit body so thats quite treat :)

So when he came around last night, he was dressed in just his jeans and a t shirt . As soon as he arrived I told him to take off his t shirt, socks and shoes . That was when he realised we might be playing :) I had him fetch me a nice cold drink of campari and orange juice (yes wierd to some but I love it) in a tall glass with ice .... and I laid back on the sofa watching this bare chested thing as he served me my drink. Oh what bliss lol

I told him to just stand while I sipped my drink .... and we chatted a little and he told me about his promotion at work and about his cat needing to go to the vet last week. Once I had my drink however, I told him to shut up now .. and I beckoned him over with my finger and told him to bend down towards me ... and as he did so, I grabbed the back of his head by his hair and pulled his face down onto mine .... shoving my tongue into his mouth whereupon we had a long passionate snog . I certainly dont kiss all my subs but he is just so tasty lol

After a few minutes of this I released him and he stood up and instructed him to strip which he did ... well there were only the jeans and undies left so it didnt take long .... and I could see he had a huge hard on. I turned myself round on the sofa from lying to sitting .... and told him to come and lie across me .... belly down .... which he duly did ... and there was his lovely round arse on my lap. Well I couldnt resist ... I had to spank it ... so I started to spank him gently .. and he writhed a little .. I heard a few deep breaths as he succumbed. Then I picked up pace a little and spanked a little harder and faster .... interspersing every so often with rubbing and massaging his arse cheeks. He writhed a little ..... and then his arse began to get a little hot (as did I lol) and red ... and I raised my hand higher and came down harder .... little gasps of pleasure/pain now ... slight moans ... lots of writhing .... squirming ... spanking hard .... oh boy it was lovely. This continued for several minutes

Then I stopped !!! suddenly !!! He turned to look at me and said "Thank you Mistress" ... and I smiled .... told him I wasnt finished and to get up. He did so and then I stood up and reached for my new riding crop. I saw him wince a little at the sight of it as I know crops arent his all time favourite thing. Bend over and steady yourself on the arm of the sofa I told him which he did ... and I stood by him ... crop in hand ... and began to slide it up and down his legs gently, teasing him .... and then I tapped his buttocks with it .... ever so gently at first ... but soon I tapped harder .... and he began to gasp once again. Harder still ... and soon he was moaning with each whack of the crop. Oh God was I enjoying this. Im not always in the mood for this type of session but today I definately was. After a few really good whacks, and a red stripy bottom that I absolutely know must have been stinging and burning I stopped. He stayed bent over but slumped slightly, somewhat breathless. I let him stay like that a short while and then I told him to stand up .... and as he did so, I turned his face towards mine with my hand and kissed him gently on the lips .... and told him how much I enjoyed that, and that he had pleased me very much. He smiled and told me thank you once again.

I then sat down on the sofa again, and pulled him by his hand to come sit with me ... and he cuddled up to me, head on my breasts .... and we chilled together in silence for a few minutes like that . Then renewed and refreshed, I told him to go get us both a drink now .... and then we sat together once again and watched a DVD , all the while him still naked and cuddling up to me . Once the film had finished, I told him he could get dressed and go home now .... and he did ... with a big smile on his face.

That was a really nice session and I enjoyed it immensley ...even though I didnt "get off" ... I could have done but decided not to .... sometimes the fun is in the anticipation, the waiting

Monday

Well Sunday wasnt so bad after all :) I had a visit from a lil sub I know .... I called him up as I was bored and home alone and over he came, like the good sub he is .

We had quite a session actually and I got to try out my new purple riding crop. I have others but I just lurrrrve purple lol so it had to be done. Simple as that.

However this morning, for some reason I couldnt sleep well so I was up on on the laptop by 6.30am ... how sad is that lol. Anyway I decided to move my blog from being hosted on my own domain to being hosted at wordpress. Its just too technical on your own domain and I am just not savvy enough for that ... and while I could learn, I can't be arsed. Why bother when a transfer across is all thats needed lol .... and so here we are ... just after 9am and all transferred :)

Today I have a day off from my day job (usually work Mondays) so I am going to spend some time trying on some new gear I got recently. I bought a purple PVC skirt ... and a couple of pairs of long gloves ..oh and a lovely black and shiny top .....

I might even spend some time photographing some of the equipment I have item by item .... not sure about that yet .... it would be quite a long job .... we will see

Also going to spend some more time on the net .... surfing and tweeting and the like ....

TTFN folkies

Sunday

Well here I am, home alone. I wish I had a lil subbie here with me now to keep me occupied but as it happens I did have plans today and then they fell through at the last minute. So I am planning on learning more about blogging but also intend to have a bath, wash my hair and cook something really nice to eat.

Later on I might phone a couple of subs I know, and get them to pop over and "see" me lol .... I need entertaining and there is such crap on TV

Queening Stools

Due to my interests in face sitting / queening I am looking for a new queening stool / chair but one that can be packed away quickly and easily until required.

If any of you subbies have any DIY skills in this area, or know anyone who does, I might be interested in commissioning them to make one for me. Obviously they would need to be UK based.

The picture above gives an idea of the type of thing but in black ... but please note there are some designs around (box types) that dont allow the Mistress to see what her slave is up to. I like to be able to see so I need an open design. It must be comfortable (for me that is lol)

If you think you could help me, I would be very glad to hear from you

A recent Hot Session

I have a lil subbie who I see reasonably regularly .... and recently our session took a different turn to what he is used to .. and boy was it hot hot hot

We were part way into it, and he was tied up in bondage with rope .... and had a ball gag in place .... and I was generally having a fun time strutting my stuff and administering some pretty harsh CBT ... when I felt an evilness creep all over me lol ..... I did no more than grab him by the hair and forced him to his knees infront of me .... and there he knelt, gag in place, legs tied together so kneeling was very difficult lol .... and arms tied behind his back ...

I pulled off the ball gag and then without warning pulled his face forwards towards my strapon with the words "open" ... to which his eyes widened .... his mouth opened .... and I pulled him down on "my cock" ... I then proceeded to fuck his mouth .... and as he struggled (I had never done this with him before) and tried to pull away, I pulled him onto it further ... and thrust into his mouth and deeper .... his eyes began to water .... he began to make choking sounds ... saliva dribbled from his mouth abnd down his chin .... and all the time I am getting hotter and hotter. the more he resisted, the more turned on I became.

After I thought he could take no more and his mouth was well used and eyes streaming ... and I thought he might puke if I continued lol .... I pulled my cock out. He looked up at me, wide eyes still, breathless, and pleading. I however was still hot so I manouvered him onto his back on the floor .... removed my strap on and and squatted over his face. I then proceeded to ride his face, grinding into it, still with my panties on ... until I had the most earth shattering orgasm lol ...

As I was finished with him .... I stood up ... and instructed him to get up .... which bound as he was, exhausted and used as he was, took several minutes, with me watching and laughing, but eventually he managed it (He isnt the fittest of guys) ... and then I started to unbind him ..... the whole time he just stared right into my eyes ... and I just smiled at him ... said nothing until I had completely untied him ... and then I said "right I have done with you so you can go now" . He looked so shocked .... obviously was hoping to get to cum (sometimes I do let him and looking at his hard on I could tell he needed to) ... but I dismissed him .. and he dressed and left and I never said another word to him that evening ... he bade me goodnight as he left and I just nodded

It was a really hot session .... I was just in the mood for that ... and he was so suprised by it that I LOVED it .... and to see him squirming, choking, dribbling, eyes running ... and yet unable to get away from me was just such a hot turn on for me ... and him too as I found out at a later date when he told me how totally used and submissive it all made him feel.

Apparently he has wanked to the memory of it a few times ... but I have told him he is not allowed to use that for wank material now .. lol ... its the sadist in me .. I cant help it

Hello All and Welcome

Well .... here we go. This is my first foray into the world of Blogging and as such I dont know a great deal about it .. so I fully expect this Blog to grow and evolve dynamically with the passage of time. Thus any jargon free tips and advice would be gratefully received lol

It is also my intention, in time to make entries about some of the sessions I have with my subs and possibly even post a few pics from time to time .... not identifiable ones though obviously ... unless of course, that is part of their humiliation and they are fully aware and it remains consensual :) (licks lips at the thought)

Hmmm thinking about it, I might even write about some past sessions that I have had ... now theres a plan ... Down Boys !!! It wont be written in a "porn" way so no jerking off here !!!!!!!!! lol

Ok ... am off to explore this blogging thing a little more lol ... send a search party out if I dont return within a reasonable amount of time in case I am lost in cyber dom space :)

TTFN (ta ta for now - for those who dont know this quaint British expression